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When having a conversation this weekend regarding the reasons why women seem to have so much trouble having orgasms during intercourse, the idea of societal pressures having an influence on a woman’s ability to climax came to my attention.

These are modern times, and I’ve always been tempted to feel that women are treated equally “most of the time”. However, with deeper thought, I realized this isn’t necessarily true, especially when it comes to sexuality.

As a young woman, I learned quickly that girls who had sex with boys were usually “sluts”, though I always thought of them with jealousy. In my nervous and clumsy early sexual experiences, I learned nothing of my own orgasms, and a lot about the sticky mess produced by my male friends. Boys spent every living moment trying to get laid, while the girls giggled nervously and prayed not to get pregnant.

As adults, men are open about masturbation, buying porno at the local gas station, renting movies down the street, dropping quarters at the peep shows, and drinking with buddies at the peelers. They talk about one night stands and weekend conquests, adjust themselves, and eyeball passing women. Women go to the odd lingerie party, blush in a sex store, or get crazy drunk and make fools of themselves at the male strippers.

And all of this seems to result in a generation of women that are out of touch with their own bodies, fighting with their own minds, and often unable to have orgasms at all. We are living in the most open-minded times ever regarding human sexuality, and yet ladies are still feeling the effects of repression.

Don’t get me wrong.. I’m not saying that men are to blame. Nor am I saying we should point the finger outwards at society. What I’m saying is, ladies… it’s time to take control of your sexuality! Get out there and create a new attitude towards sex. Spend time looking at the men who pass you on the street. Discover a porno magazine that really turns you on. Masturbate like a maniac all weekend!

Want to feel a freedom you might never have felt before? Tell your partner that you like to FUCK. Tell yourself that you love your CUNT. Take control of the things we’ve been told are “slutty” or “dirty” and enjoy them! Let your sexuality become more overt and don’t feel ashamed for enjoying it.

There’s nothing better to boost your libido and increase your chances of cumming than spending more time being exposed to your sexuality. Increase the time you spend thinking about sex, masturbating, reading erotica, looking at pornography, surfing the web for your favorite fetish, talking to your partner about your turn-ons, flirting with lovers or strangers, and discovering your new sexual attitude.

That’s it… I’m getting horny, and I’m off to masturbate like a maniac!